The
Insensitive Indian
Shocked!/Amazed?.....by the title. Perhaps
you should not. The reason I am saying this is because in everyday life we may
come across various instances where we may find several annoying fellowmen whom
we find very hard to resist, ignore them and babble out few cuss words and move
on. More importantly we spell out some famous one liner like,” this is why our
condition is so pathetic”, “nobody can reform this country”, and so on…..
But the situation changes as soon as we are
on the receiving end. Let us take an instance for example. Shobha, a lady from Mumbai,
is travelling with her family in an unreserved/ general compartment in a train
as she was not able to get a reservation. Her family comprises her husband Mr.
Mehta and her 8 year old daughter Reeni. She took the train from Mumbai and
captured a full lower berth with standard occupancy of four. As the rush was less,
they travelled very comfortably for about four stoppages, then suddenly Shobha
realised that the rush was increasing, so she asked her daughter to lie in a
supine position (half sitting half lying) and pretend that she was ill. People
came pouring in and they started asking Shobha and family to accommodate them
but Shobha told them, as her daughter is unwell, so she needed space. As the
fellow travellers were sensitive enough, so they provided them space while
travelling on their legs. Shobha was very happy on her wileness.
Now unfortunately on their return journey
again they have to travel in the unreserved/ general compartment. This time as
their boarding station was not the starting one, Shobha and her family had to
face the crunch. Any how they boarded the train, only to find themselves in a
coach full of heads as the bogey was as packed as hounds. On every full berth
on an average 6 people were sitting instead of 4. As her daughter was very
uncomfortable standing in the crunched space and suddenly she started crying.
Fortunately Shobha found a berth where just 4 people were sitting as against 6.
On seeing a chance to improvise, Shobha moved ahead to the seat occupied by
four and she asked them to adjust a bit. One of the elderly men came upfront
and tried to explain to her that as one of the youth who was sitting beside the
window had a broken limb and if forced to sit in cramped space, it would
exacerbate his injury. But as Shobha was not willing to compel to his excuse.
Infact she started abusing them and doubted their credibility, it led to a
brawl between the two families.
This story presents two conditions:
1.
When Shobha faked the illness
of her daughter she was happy over her wileness and not her genuinity or
credibility.
2.
When she was not able to occupy
a seat due to a genuine reason, should we appreciate her?
The point is
that, Why do we react differently in two different situations?
Why do mothers
use their children for such a paltry purpose?
And that brings
us to our core question:
Is Shobha an
insensitive Indian?
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